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Monday, August 24, 2015

A Brief Guide To Couples Sex Counseling Temecula

By Kathrine Franks


It is never easy for two different people to coexist in peace and harmony. Often, the differences between individuals may the cause of conflict. Such conflict is manifested in marriages and relationships that can lead to loss of intimacy. Intimacy is essential for couples to stay in love amidst conflicts. Therefore, when it is lost, there is a need to ensure that it is regained. Couples sex counseling Temecula helps restore lost intimacy.

It all starts with an appointment with a sex therapist. He or she listens keenly to the description of the problem and may ask questions to gather more information about your problem. The importance of this session is to know more information about your case and suggest treatment options that meet your needs as every couple differs from the other.

It is not and should not be embarrassing to ask for help from an outsider to save a relationship or marriage. Therapists have client privileges and, therefore, you can be assured that what you share with them is private and confidential. Additionally, the work of the therapist is to help partners discover the source of their problem and together, look for the solution. Their role in therapy is to hold both of your hands and help find the solution together.

Counselling has helped many partners, gay, lesbian or straight. In fact, 93% of couples who have had sex therapy found it helpful and life-changing. It helps address physical, emotional and psychological problems that hinder partners from having a fulfilling intimate experience. Additionally, it may prove useful in cases where sexual problems prevent conception or partners from starting a family.

Depending on your situation, a therapist may recommend weekly or fortnightly sessions. In each session, there will be a lot of talking, between the partners as well as with the therapist. Also, the therapist may ask either or both of you to do some homework as every teacher does.

You may take all kinds of problems with the therapist. These may include dissatisfaction, problems with body image and self-esteem and difficulties with erection, orgasm and ejaculation. Other issues include those arising from past trauma such as incest or assault. Additionally, therapists help with matters resulting from relationship issues such as infidelity.

The length of treatment may vary for different kind of problems. For instance, problems with ejaculation and orgasm may be resolved within very few sessions. However, problems entangled in a relationship may take longer to resolve. It may take up to six months and may require marital counselling too. Others such as trauma can take several years to resolve depending on the individual, type of abuse and if violence was involved. The only way to tell how long yours will last is to book an appointment with a counsellor.

Every relationship has its uphill and downhill no matter how much love is involved. To ensure the problems do not get in the way of intimacy, it is best to address every issue as soon as it arises. Although sex therapy is difficult for some people, it is the best treatment for couples grappling with intimacy issues.




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